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THE ONLY GAY IN THE VILLAGE…….

Do you feel like this sometimes? That there is nobody that knows how you feel? That there is nobody to connect about the gay things in life. Well…..I don’t have that problem, because I am surrounded by gays wherever I go. Even today in the supermarket it looked like muscle beach everywhere LOL. Hell yeah, I am not even the only gay person in our families and last sunday we had our annual Middleton family day ;-)

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Every year for our grandparents birthday (8th of July) we come all together on the first sunday in July. Sometimes a whole weekend in a cottage or just a day full of fun and mostly with a lot of food!!! We are Indonesians and if you know Indonesians, then you know there is always food!!! Unfortunately our beloved grandparents are not with us anymore, but we maintain this tradition to honour them and for being together with the family at least once a year. This year we had a picknick in a big parc and we all brought food and drinks for all of us. We are a big family (around 30 adults and children) and when the day ended, there were still food and drinks to divide!!!

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lesley en pammie03With 1 nephew and 1 niece being gay, you could say the gay community was enough present here. They say “All good things come in three”. My niece told us that now in September 2014 we have again a same-sex wedding to go to. They got just engaged. We are so happy for them, that 16575_424311434307141_857818941_nafter more than 20 years together they finally tie the knot. My other nephew introduced now also to the family his boyfriend, which not everybody has met yet. We already knew him. The “village”  is not that big off course ;-)

 

IMG_9675We are already looking out for 2015, when my grandparents would have been each 100 years old. We are supposedly going on a weekend in a village parc with littles houses. (because this gay does not go camping in a tent. You know I am a classy boy, so no lying on the ground with little insects around me LOL) We can make a big bonfire at night!!! So bring out the wine and marshmellows….(mmm alcohol and fire and my man to warm me up, liking it already and don’t you agree a bed is better than crawling into a tent) ;p

 

IMG_9667What so great is about this family day, that nobody cares if you are gay or straight. We are one family and your partner is a part of this too and whatever happens, good or bad news, your family is here. Everyone can be themself and is laughing, joking, telling stories and catching up with each other. IMG_9672That is why you will never feel like you’re the only gay in the village, because you are never alone!!! So if you have a family like that, be thankful, be blessed and appreciate it.

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Have a PINK family day

Big kiss,

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Lesley

DON’T BE A DRAG, JUST BE A QUEEN

IMG_4578 There are many places in this world to visit,  prides to go to and enjoy, good restaurants to have dinner and many parties and shows to entertain us. And we know that all gays love this, don’t we?!?

That is why we have this section to tell you all about the beautiful places or where you can find great entertainment in our world. Off course we choose this all for the gay public, but it has to be straight friendly as well. We want a free and tolerant environment, where diversity and respect are highly valued. No prejudice to the straight people…… they were also born this way LOL

IMG_8947This time we have chosen for you the ambiance restaurant Mas’kara in Belgium. This restaurant is already well-known in the citylife of Antwerp. They were honoured in 2007 and 2008 for Best Entertainment Restaurant in Belgium. They offer you a total package with nice food, drinks, a  great show and dancing. Mas’kara is definitely the place to be for a amazing Friday or Saturday evening full entertainment. A night  you will never forget.IMG_8950

Last monday on the 28th of january it was the annual monday night in January where all the restaurants or pubs come to Mas’kara . These people can’t come on a Friday or Saturday to this ambiance restaurant and this evening is especially organized for them. This place exists almost for eleven years now, even during the time of crisis in  Belgium. People can enjoy  a good entertaining show with the finest showqueens and after that enjoy a great dance night with the DJ of the house. This Monday came 234 people watching their show (A full house) and it was like everytime a good show. We always go with a bunch of friends at least to these nights in January and in June and sometimes in between too. Every half year they bring a new show with performances of the best showqueens. They entertain you with look-a-likes, dance tunes, ballads and humor. Even the great leading lady and part owner Zsa Zsa Lamore gives up a stand-up comedian act that leaves the crowd with rolling tears of laughter down their cheeks. The way she tells the stories or jokes is in a way that no other showqueen does. She does not spare off course any of the guests with witty comments, rough language and obscene gestures, but it is all part of the act. You will love it!!!

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Normally there are always three other “ladies” who join her on stage, but this time they had a special guest for the evening. Most guests on this monday night know her too, but for the reason that she had moved to London two years ago, nobody could have guessed that she was here. Yana international ( winner of the showqueen awards in 2008 and here on your left) came on stage and she did an outstanding performance with a number from the musical Sunset Boulevard. She was overwhelmed herself for all the attention and applause. She was glad to came back for this from London. And we were also happy to see her again too!!!

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The other girls on stage were:

Star (here on your right): she did a great performance of Kylie and even a number of Lady Gaga starting with a piano on stage. Star is for almost eleven years also the regular understudy ,when another girl is sick or on vacation. She is a girl, who can entertain in various ways.

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Sederginneke ( here on your left): a “girl” who is only 19 years old  with a big mouth (literally). She brings a lot of laughs to the stage with her numbers. A special credit to her for this Monday, because she was still doing her acts, even though she had hurt her ankle on vacation in Thailand two weeks before. Hooray for the painkillers and that she could have been on stage ;-) It was hilarious.

Tonight also Vanessa Van Cartier (here on your right) shined on stage with numbers from Gladys Knight and Madame Butterfly. IMG_8995Vanessa was in 2010 miss of all misses showqueens in Belgium and she brings a variety of acts with lots of sparkle, glitter and glamour. She rocked the house and is terrific in everything she does.

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This night she was not here, but from February the legendary drag queen will come back in Mas’kara: Liz Harley (here on your left). She is well- known for her superb and extravagant and mostly revealing outfits and her crazy rock on performances. Her husband Fernando and she are the other co-owners of this great venue.

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And off course the leading lady of the house Zsa Zsa will not only welcome you when you arrive, but also talks the show like a perfect host through perfection. She is a real diva and well known in Antwerp and abroad. She is soon 20 year performing of stage, she acts, she can tell jokes, she can move ( a great persiflage of Gangnam Style on this night), she gives a lot of different acts and make the stage always her own. Most fear her, but she has a heart of gold. She gives it to the audiences straight and that makes that a lot of people always come back and enjoy the show. Not only Belgium people visit this dinner spectacle, but they have visitors from The Netherlands, Germans, English and even from the States who enjoy a good night out.

This ambiance restaurant can’ t survive offcourse without their whole staff and should get some extra credits too. Not only the great show, but also the female cook and great service of the waiters and bar staff make this venue a perfect night out for you to enjoy. So it is no surprise that a lot of bachelor parties, companies or just good friends come here for a night full of laughter and entertainment. They even had some weddings organized over there. The showqueens also perform outside Mas’kara and you can find them on studio 54 ( http://www.redandblue.be/studio54 ), in the gay discotheque red and blue (http://www.redandblue.be), Gay pride Antwerp of in most of the other gay pubs or clubs.

We were the last persons to leave last Monday and we had a great time from beginning to end with our bunch of 22 friends. These nights gather so many people every year and the crowd gets bigger and bigger. The fun starts already on these special nights with seeing all the friends together. One big gay family!!! With the drinks coming… and coming….IMG_4580 and coming next to a very naughty dessert (see picture), we had a fabulous time. 205635_10200621558164265_1140799575_nAlmost at the end the leading lady always asks if we want an extra number and before that she tells a little story. All though I have heard it so many times, it gives me goosebumps over and over again.  But it is definitely the truth.

“There are so many wrong things happening on this earth, like 9/11, killings, rapes, bombing and child molesting. But one thing you can say about it, it was never done by a gay person. So when somebody still say homophobic remarks or kill the gays, please tell everybody about this evening and tell them that the gays are not that bad at all. Thank you and good night”

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And then always starts the never boring end of the show. One of the showqueens Star start undressing and removing his wig and make –up to changing himself into the man he is on the song I am who I am !!!. Everybody gets in the mood with this final act and nobody was ready to go home immediately. So we didn’t ;-) ;-) ;-)

So whenever you are in Antwerp/Belgium and you have the time, you should visit Mas’kara in Borsbeek/Belgium. See website for more information: http://www.mask-ara.be/

A last special message will go out today to Zsa Zsa Lamore AKA Danny Calander, because on the day we post this he will also be celebrating his birthday today. Congratulations and many more great years to come!!!

Keep on smiling everybody and have a great Pink day

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Lesley